Tuesday, August 23, 2016

The answer from my heart

How does she know she likes him enough...

There's no absolute answer to that question. There's only possibilities that she knows she is capable of doing for him that says it all.

There's no need for a compromise 🔅
Because she's willing to give in and conform.
No, she's not a pushover but rather she loves him enough to let go of other things.

There's no need to meet halfway 🔅
For she would have travelled any distance to meet him.
No, she's not desperate but she loves him enough to travel across oceans if need be.

There's no need to relocate 🔅
For she's willing to move anywhere she needs to, change her career and restart all over just to be with him.
No, she's not dependent but she knows he matters more than the distance, country and career she has. Those can change with time but not him.

There's no need to fight 🔅
For she would have apologised at the beginning of it.
No, she's not scared but she cares enough to not allow anything create a friction between both of them.

There's no need for a mansion 🔅
For she's willing to live and settle anywhere as long as it's with him.
No, she's not saying it for the sake of saying it but she knows that a beautiful castle is not made up of the external luxuries one sees but rather the beauty of the occupants within it. Fairy tales exists so as long you work on building it.

There's no need for an alternate ego level 🔅
For she would have let go of her ego completely if needed.
No, she's not a loser but she knows victory is not from only winning but also from creating a winner out of someone you love.

There's no need for a second call 🔅
For she would have already left after the first call for her to meet him.
No, it's not that she has nothing to do, but rather everything else can wait if he needs her. Priorities she calls it.

There's no need to coax her 🔅
For she will turn from her usual self to a different self, the naughtiest self when she's with him.
No, she's not cheap but she loves him enough to bare it all, do it all.

There's no need to make her cry 🔅
For she will cry her heart out in front of him when she feels like it.
No, she's not seeking attention, rather she trusts him enough to reveal her darkest fears in the most vulnerable state one can be in.

There's no need to change 🔅
For she accepts him as a whole, be it his sarcasm, imperfections, weirdness, likes and dislikes. 
No, she's not lying here as she knows all these makes him who he is and he is the person she loves. Hence, she accepts everything that comes as part of him for they complete him as a person.

There's no need to ask 🔅
For if he wants his time alone, she will agree, if he wants her there, she will be there, if he wants to talk to her, she will talk to him.
No, she's not submissive but she respects him enough to listen to him.

There's no need for a time out 🔅
For she would not remain mad with him for more than a minute and she would do anything to not allow him to be mad with her for a longer period.
No, she's not soft but she knows that their happiness is far more worthy than what any anger can bring.

There's no need for an equal love 🔅
For she is willing to love and give more. 
She understands enough that nothing is equally similar in the world and she is willing to be the one that gives more.
No, she's not under valuing herself but she knows her capabilities and how far she can go for someone she loves.

None of these makes her any less of an individual for she is still the person she is, only a better self. 😘